21/06/2026
I've shared this before and probably will again.This is my little tribute stone to our dad, a gentle gentleman who's eyes sparkled when he smiled.
Love and miss you daddy pops β€οΈ
Francis John Holmes Ryder was born on 9th June 1915. A happy childhood enjoying country life, farms and animals. Later he joined the RAF, had married his sweetheart and they had 22 happy years together until sadly she died suddenly aged just 42.
Through his career as a welfare officer in elderly care he met our mum Iris who was an assistant matron at a residential home. Thankfully for us they fell in love and the rest is history
Although an older parent aged 50 and 52 when my sister and I were born, he was a true family man. Hard working and patient. He provided us with a lovely home and the garden was always beautiful. He built my sister and I go carts, a play house, sledges, sprinkled us with the hose in the summer, did cartwheels on the beach, taught us to swim in the sea, read books and sang rhymes to us, taught me to drive and became a doting grandfather and much more.
Always an avid motorcycle enthusiast and rider all of his life. He ran a motorbike workshop for troubled teens at one point and did lots of voluntary roles when he retired.
We lost him in 2001 but feel incredibly lucky to have had him as our dad.
To all the dad's today, we appreciate you, love you and thank you.