09/09/2026
I know this is something you’ll struggle with because me too and I think this is one of the hardest parts of changing. See when you change people unconsciously panic, because really no one likes change and it scares them…
Everyone right is used to the version of you, the current one, they know what to expect and that’s it, the fear comes from their uncertainty of what will become
Right now they know what you’ll tolerate, say yes to, how you’re just always available regardless of the time date or your other plans, and then one day they’ll say ‘you’re just not the same anymore’ because you no longer over explain any decline plan invites.
You put boundaries in place and actually uphold them more than once. You start going after your dreams, listening to that inner nudge no matter how out there they might seem
And so now they don’t know what to expect, they don’t understand why you’ve changed, some might even said they prefer the old version of you
And truely, that’s okay. Because the old version of you was built around what you thought you had to be to be loved, accepted, safe, liked, approved of…
Yet the woman you’re becoming? She’s being built around what actually feels true to YOU
There was a time when other people’s opinions could completely derail me. I’d talk myself out of things before I’d even given myself the chance to try.
Some might not understanding my vision and some might being uncomfortable with my boundaries but none of that means you’ve done something ‘wrong’
Sometimes coming back to HER, yourself that is, means letting other people have their opinions without making them yours
honestlyyyy please feel free to
✨ Want more
✨ Change your mind
✨ Outgrow things
✨ Disappoint people
This isn’t a popularity contest, it’s YOUR LIFE
And frankly life’s short.
Way too short to just be trying to please everyone and anyone outside of yourself.
So if you’re feeling a little lost right now, maybe you’re just in a growth period. Outgrowing the life, identity and patterns that have been given to you.