Haven & Wildfleur Interiors

Haven & Wildfleur Interiors We create personalised, stylish, and functional homes that reflect your unique identity. Let’s turn your space into a warm and inviting haven.

Specialising in online design, styling, and modular solutions for renters and homeowners in Singapore. Heaven in a Wild Flower is a boutique event styling and vintage rental company in Singapore, specialising in creating beautiful occasions through handmade details, inspirational design, gorgeous florals and unique vintage items.

08/02/2026

I hadn’t intended to take a 2-week break from posting. Up till recently, I felt immense pressure to keep up with some sort of regular posting schedule (minimally twice a week) because I told myself - you’re already not getting much traction, the least you can do is keep showing up.

But recent changes in my life meant that I had much less time to call my own, and I just didn’t have the bandwidth to plan and make content. I underestimated how difficult it would be to context switch, and to be honest it was so easy to let it just fall by the side once I stopped. Scarily so.

And here’s the thing I learnt - no one notices you’re gone. Probably because I don’t have a big audience, so really all the pressure I felt to show up really was just from me alone. Even if you have an audience, they probably also didn’t notice and would understand why you were gone for a while.

Which brings me to my second point. Your loyal audience will still be around (I mean it’s not a one year break) for you in a few weeks, but in that same amount of time, you could enjoy precious time with your loved ones by being fully present.

I felt like I was failing to keep up with posting because everyday I would be reminded by other accounts on how much they were doing, experts teaching you how easy it is to create content effortlessly. I didn’t realise how stressful it had been until I stepped away.

I could easily have let this become an infinite hiatus, because the inertia to start again is great (and offline life is so easier!) but taking time away reminded me of why I still want to have this platform and channel - to share my love for interiors, vintage, snippets of my life and the challenges I face. I dream of building an engaged community of like-minded friends that want to live a simple life, finding beauty in everyday things.

So I’ve enjoyed this break, and really hope it’s not another 2 weeks before I post again (even if so, that’s ok!) and I hope to be hit with some brilliant content ideas in the meantime 🤣

My word of the year is CHOICE. To remind myself I have a choice in everything I do. I often find myself self-limiting be...
07/01/2026

My word of the year is CHOICE. To remind myself I have a choice in everything I do. I often find myself self-limiting because “that’s just how I am” and behaviour and the light patterns are so sticky.

I noticed how often my days were being shaped by autopilot and how my mind has been deciding things for me. Assuming the worst. Stress before I even started. A constant background sense of bracing myself for what might come.

What I’ve learned is that anxiety doesn’t always show up as panic. Sometimes it looks like overthinking, pessimism, overplanning. Somewhere along the way,
reacting became easier than choosing.

So Choice is how I am going to interrupt that. Not by forcing positive thinking, but by creating a pause to remind myself that a thought isn’t a fact, and a feeling isn’t a forecast.

I’m using this word to practice choosing differently in small moments. Choosing where my attention goes. Choosing a softer interpretation when my mind jumps to conclusions. Choosing action even when I don’t feel fully ready. Some days that choice is visible. Other days it’s as small as not doomscrolling for ten extra minutes.

I’m choosing intention over comparison and direction over noise. To stop letting urgency, metrics, or other people’s timelines decide how I move, and focusing instead on what feels aligned and sustainable for me.
To trust that small, deliberate choices will create clarity over time, even if I don’t see it right away.

I’m sharing this in case you’ve been feeling stuck in your own head, overwhelmed by your thoughts, or disconnected from your sense of agency.

Maybe the work isn’t to change who you are. Maybe it’s just remembering that even in the middle of uncertainty, you still have a choice in how you respond.

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