05/29/2026
I bought this fabric to make a headboard—but what I actually got was a sense of self-worth I didn’t know I was missing.
I had been dreaming of this Mountain Tiger velvet for years. Earmarked magazine pages where fancy designers used it in fancy homes. Hung a swatch on my office wall as a thing to covet but never own.
I dreamt of those tigers, the way most people fantacize of vacations or the perfect meal.
But I told myself it was out of the question for my little bedroom makeover because my project should be done on a shoestring. With the kids’ activities adding up and more pressing work around the house: who was I to invest in just a pretty thing?
But then one day I was talking to a client about reframing her needs: from selfish to self-regarding.
She was using the same language to minimize herself that I was using in my own mind. That mantra that if it wasn’t for the family: it wasn’t a necessity.
I realized in that moment that I too needed to reframe.
It wasn’t that I couldn’t afford the fabric—I had convinced myself I wasn’t worthy of it.
So in a bold act to practice what I preach, I got those tigers, and they now live above my head instead of in my dreams each night.
And that velvet is so much more than just fabric: it is a visual daily affirmation that I. Am. Worthy.
And that is priceless.