09/16/2026
I need to have a bit of a rant. It's only 12:30 pm and I'm ready to shut it down for the day.
My phone rang this morning an hour before opening. My voice mail message clearly states my hours of operation. The lady came to the house anyway and knocked on the door, wanting me to open early for her. I couldn't - I was on a conference call and only answered the door because I thought it might have been a delivery that I needed to sign for.
Fast forward a couple of hours. A woman pulls up and goes to the house, tries all of the locked doors, peers in every single window on the main floor. I think it would be fairly obvious, after peering through the first window and seeing my living room and cats, that my house is not the studio. But, no, she continues to peer in every single window. So I call out to her from the studio. She then chastises me, saying I should have the open flag flying on the studio (if I did that, the flag would not be visible from the road). I told her that most people have no difficulty seeing the big sign on the studio building and, after her first peek, she should have realised that she was looking into my home. She got quite incensed and stormed out.
Yes, I operate a retail studio on my property. But I also deserve some privacy. Please respect my hours - do not expect me to open up any time someone drives up. Everyone who works deserves to enjoy their time away from work, to be able to rest, relax, or even do the requisite housework without the expectation that we are here to "serve" at all hours. And please respect my personal privacy and do not peer into the windows of my home!!!
(picture is of the retail studio with the rather sizeable sign, taken from the driveway to show what folks see when they arrive)
Thank-you for allowing me to vent, and for understanding why folks involved in the tourism industry are emotionally exhausted by the end of the "season".