Home with Fern

10/10/2026

AD - Creating a baking corner with Joybuy UK 🍰

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Check my fave picks below 👇🏼

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07/10/2026

Viral £6.99 pumpkin potpourri from 🎃

When I saw this bag of pumpkin potpourri I couldn’t not get it. It can cost a lot to get lots of little cute pumpkins to put around the house and these ones smell great… what could be better than that?!! 🤷🏼‍♀️🤣

And the great thing is, you can use them every single year. Next year I might give them a little spray with something autumnal to keep them smelling nice but they just look so cute and such a bargain!

Stay tuned for more autumn home decor finds on a budget! 🤎

04/10/2026

Living room switch up 🤎

Swipe for before and after…

Moving the sofa and putting the TV up above the fire has completely transformed the living room. It feels so much cosier and conversational. Obsessed 😍

Do you prefer it?

01/10/2026

Here’s how a simple change of furniture placement can elevate a room and make it feel more expensive and cosy 🤎

The placement of the TV has been itching me for ages and the room just didn’t feel cosy as it’s a long, large room, and nothing felt cosy enough. Yesterday I said to Dan I need to move the sofa and it’s happening right now, and it did 🤣

The next step is moving the TV on the chimney breast above the fire, and the other side of the room will be spacious for the kids to play, the armchair and side table.

What do you think? I think it looks so much better 😍



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30/09/2026

29/09/2026

Bringing Autumn into our kitchen on a budget 🤎🍂

My staple for decorating all year round is my tension rod. Pretty much all of these items I’ve used to style our kitchen for autumn I already had, but I had to get this light up Autumn garland from 😍🍂

What’s your favourite item?

28/09/2026

33 Years young today 🎂🥂



And Autumn turns 9 🥹❤️

My little bestie who got me through some of the worst times in my life. Here’s a recent picture when I was recovering from surgery last week and she wanted to do some “pampering” together ❤️

My best friend cooked us my favourite dinner at the weekend. Along with the most amazing starter and dessert 🤤

Today I’m reminiscing when I had my first baby 9 years ago and how lucky I feel to have her ❤️

Those big blue eyes have never changed…

Happy birthday darling girl ❤️

25/09/2026

Here’s why I have lost all faith in the NHS this week post miscarriage. But also how I was treated before I knew about it. This is just scratching the surface, so much more has happened.

Don’t get me wrong, there are some INCREDIBLE members of staff in the NHS. I’ve met the most amazing nurses, doctors, gynaecologists, midwives etc… however, everyone is so exhausted from being understaffed and being mistreated that they are unable to do their jobs properly. (Some are just pure rudeness and need sacking to be quite honest)

Before I even had my scan I had been ignored, treated unfairly, pushed to the side and just not listened to. As a mother, I know my body and when something isn’t right. I had this with my first miscarriage too where I wasn’t taken seriously and it was a very traumatic time.

This time around, it’s just been shocking with how some of the staff have treated us. The lack of empathy is beyond belief. Not only that, being surrounded by happy women looking at their pregnancy scans while you’re sat in a waiting area crying due to your loss shouldn’t be happening.

Things need to change, the NHS workers need more support so that they can give more support. But they also need educating on how to treat patients, especially mothers who are grieving from a loss.

I have had hundreds of women message me who are in the same boat as me currently and it’s just shocking. If you’re going through this too, my inbox is always open and I’ve created a channel for us to all comfort one another in these horrible times ❤️‍🩹

Now it’s time to hopefully be done with the hospital and grieve at home with my family ❤️‍🩹

20/09/2026

TRIGGER WARNING - Missed miscarriage 💔

There are no words to describe this feeling. This was supposed to be a very different post. This month was supposed to be full of joy… our 12-13 week scan telling the kids the news, mine and Autumns birthdays on the 28th.

September is my favourite month and this was going to be the best one yet, until we had the gut wrenching news on Thursday that our baby had died at 7 weeks + 4 days. This was just 2 days after we had seen a healthy heart beat at an early scan due to a bad incident we were involved in and some pain I was having. We had been given hope that everything was fine.

My bump was growing, my symptoms were there, I had told my work and lots of our friends knew. We were so excited for our scan to see how baby was growing and be able to share the news. To find out baby had died over 5 weeks ago and I had to be have surgery in the next 24 hours was not what we expected and we still can’t get our head around it all. And to think that if I hadn’t of fought for the scan to be rebooked the same week after it had been cancelled that I could have had a serious infection, so thank god we were seen.

I wanted to share this on here to firstly share that not everything is as perfect as it seems on social media, but also to spread awareness on missed miscarriages as many people don’t know it’s a thing. This is my second one, however this time is such a different story to what happened years ago.

There’s so much I could say, and we’re still trying to process it all. But for now I want to say a huge thank you to everyone who’s been SO supportive and kind, and to Dan who has been my absolute rock.

None of this is fair and we are in bits, but we’re trying to think of positives for the future and stay positive for the kids who I am also eternally grateful for.

If anyone is going through the same thing, my inbox is always open and we can support each other.

For now, RIP little one 💔😭