06/06/2026
✨🦋06.06.2025 💖 06.06.2026 🦋✨
A 12 month journey through loss and grief and how it made me rethink the way I’m living life not in a ‘I quit everything overnight’ but in a ‘how and who I want to spend my time’ kind of way.
🦋 I stopped seeing life as infinite;
🦋 I stopped stressing over things they won’t matter in 5 years time;
🦋 I stopped putting dreams, joy and rest off and I started saying what I feel;
🦋 I ‘decluttered’ my life of people who drained me and filled it with people who value what I value and at the same level. And this remains ‘a work in progress’;
🦋 I have less tolerance now for pretending things are ok when they aren’t….and I just say it as it is. No more performing, shrinking or people pleasing just to keep everybody comfortable;
🦋 I care so much more now about how life feels, not just how it looks;
🦋 I intentionally seek and choose presence, calm and happiness.
I no longer think grief just breaks you.
I think it rebuilds you into someone who sees life completely differently.
Grief puts life into perspective, ‘anche se….fa rumore e fa male’.
I MISS YOU MUM. 🦋🩵✨