12/10/2026
Last night, my youngest and I had the honour of attending Prostate Cancer UK’s 30th anniversary dinner at the iconic The River Cafe
As many of you know, I lost my husband Nigel to prostate cancer in 2023. So when I was asked to be the evening’s guest speaker, I knew I had to say yes.
Nigel was diagnosed with stage 4 prostate cancer at just 51, after it was discovered during a routine medical. I often wonder whether things might have been different if he’d had a PSA blood test earlier. We’ll never know, but early diagnosis can mean more treatment options and a better chance of treating the disease before it spreads. With no national screening programme, raising awareness and encouraging men to speak to their GP about PSA testing is vital.
Hosted by the legendary Steve Rider, the evening was organised by Professor Roger Kirby, David Gleave MW and Jane MacQuitty MBE, The Times’ W**e and Drink Correspondent.
The generosity of everyone involved, including the 120 guests, was humbling. Ruth Rogers, co-founder and owner of The River Cafe, provided the stunning venue and incredible menu. David Gleave and Jane MacQuitty curated the w**es, with Liberty W**es generously supplying the reception ch*****ne and dinner w**es.
Together, over £100,000 was raised for Prostate Cancer UK through donations and the charity auction.
It was also a chance to reflect on what the charity has achieved in 30 years. Its research has transformed diagnosis and treatment, its specialist nurses have supported tens of thousands of men and their loved ones, and millions rely on its health information.
By 2039, one million men in the UK will be living with or after prostate cancer. It’s the UK’s most common cancer, yet there’s still no national screening programme and treatments can have debilitating side effects.
This cause means so much to my family. If sharing Nigel’s story encourages even one man to ask about a PSA test, it will have been worth it 💙
Thanks to the generosity of the guests, through their donations and bids in the charity auction, over £100,000 was raised for Prostate Cancer UK.
My son Thomas and I will be running the London Marathon for Prostate Cancer UK next Apri