28/09/2026
I’ve always found something a little bittersweet about these red spider lilies. They are called higanbana (彼岸花) in Japanese and known as kkotmureut (꽃무릇) or seoksan (석산) in Korea.
Its leaves and flowers never appear at the same time. When the flowers bloom, the leaves are already gone. And when the leaves return, the flowers have disappeared.
They never get to meet, yet somehow, they keep their promise to return.
It makes me think about the people and moments we sometimes miss in life. We may not always be able to stay in the same place or share the same season, but that doesn’t mean the connection disappears.
Maybe keeping a promise sometimes means simply continuing to show up, each in our own season, in our own way.
I find something quietly comforting in that.
#彼岸花