27/08/2024
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Avoid a relationship:
1. BASED ON PHYSICAL ATTRACTION ALONE
Aside the fact that both of you love each other's looks, complexion, appearance, etc, there's nothing substantial about the relationship. You're always gushing about how beautiful or handsome your partner is, how long her hair is, and how hairy and broad-chested he is. You're in love with looks nothing more nothing less. Favour is deceitful and beauty is vain.
2. BASED ON FINANCIAL GAINS ONLY
Whoever told you that a relationship is meant to be your poverty alleviation program lied to you. If you're in that relationship solely because of what you stand to gain financially, quit now before it's too late.
3. BASED ON S'EX ALONE
Believers should keep the marriage bed UNDEFILED, holy, and pure. Once s'ex is involved, quit!
4. THAT MAKES YOU BIT'TER INSTEAD OF MAKING YOU BETTER
Any relationship that keeps serving you limes instead of smiles is do'omed. Run away from any relationship that makes you shed tears of sorrow regularly.
5. WHERE THE LOVE IS ONE-SIDED
The love has to be mutual. Avoid any relationship where you find yourself struggling to love your partner. Loving someone is effortless and comes naturally. Don't beg anyone to marry you nor should you marry anyone out of pity. If you're not feeling the love now, chances are that you won't feel it in the marriage.
6. WHERE THERE ARE OBVIOUS RED FLAGS
Red flags are like road bumps. So, the moment you start seeing different red flags in a relationship, match the break and do a U-Turn.
7. THAT MESSES WITH YOUR ME'NTAL HEALTH
You matter! Once your men'tal health is at stake, please take a walk! Learn to love yourself much more than any relationship or person. It's not se'lfishness, but it's wisdom. Prioritize self love.
8. WHERE DOME'STIC VI0LENCΒ£ IS THE NORM
Quit with immediate effect once D.V. is involved. You shouldn't even wait for him or her to h'it you a second time before you take a walk.
9. WHERE YOU'RE ONLY SEEN BUT NOT HEARD
Any relationship that silences you is not a healthy and Godly one. Your freedom of speech should not be sto'len or forc'efully taken away from you because you're in a relationship.
10. THAT SEVERES THE CONNECTION YOU HAVE WITH FRIENDS AND FAMILY
Once you can't freely relate with friends and family because of a relationship, this is a huge red flag! No one should ostracize you from your loved ones.
11. THAT IS TO'XIC
To'xic relationships are de'adly. Avoid them at all costs. To'xic persons hardly change. If you notice any of the signs of tox'icity that I posted two days ago in such a person, it's better to take a walk.
12. WHERE YOUR PARTNER IS OVERLY CONTROLLING AND DOMINEERING
A controlling partner is dang'erous and will frustrate you. Never settle for an overly contr'olling person.
13. THAT IS CHARACTERIZED BY INCESSANT CONFLICTS
There will be conflicts but if they're the order of the day, that's a serious signal for you to take a walk. Never settle where you won't enjoy peace from morning to night. It's da'ngerous!
14. WHERE YOU BOTH DO NOT SHARE THE SAME CORE VALUES
Your core values must align. Once this isn't the case, it's an invitation to future prob'lems. There should be alignment of vision, purpose, and mission.
15. WHERE YOU BOTH HAVE CONFLICTING RELIGIOUS BELIEFS
A Christian should marry a fellow Christian. Don't mix up religions in marriage. Marry your type! Don't be unequally yoked together with unbelievers.
16. THAT DRAWS YOU AWAY FROM GOD
Your relationship with God comes first. Your spiritual life matters a great deal. If it's affecting your spiritual life, quit.
Remember, a bro'ken relationship is better than a br'oken marriage!
