05/09/2026
The 1992 children's book "The Rainbow Fish" is a short but sweet story of a beautiful fish with shining scales. Even though the other fish asked him to share his beautiful scales, he didn't want to. But a wise old octopus advised him to trade in his vanity for friendship and love. I am not an attention-seeker and am very private. But let me be vulnerable and share that losing my hair during chemo was awful. Is awful. I cried everytime I put on that wig. The minute I had a shadow of hair, that Mother Effer was gone forever. It still throws me off when I look in the mirror. But there is something about being stripped bare of your physical appearance that makes you grapple to fill that space with more enduring things. Instagram is filled with vanity and it is okay to feel good about yourself! But it can all be taken away with little notice and there is nothing wrong with aging gracefully. I thank God for the wise octopuses in my life and the friends who filled space for me and distracted me with goodness and laughs when I needed it most. Spread your glitter! Pattern by