06/22/2024
It is with heavy heart and leaking eyes that I write this post. Celeste also known as Sis,C and sister passed away on June 20. She had fought a valiant battle with RA, scleroderma and other autoimmunes that go along with her diseases, but as we all know Father Time always wins this battle in the end.
I met Sis 32 years ago in Clarksdale Mississippi and it was a match made in heaven. I will share how we met to add a little lightness to this post. I had been hunting with a bud in the delta near Clarksdale. We stopped to eat at a local restaurant and he asked where I was heading when I left. I said well I am going to stop by that pawn shop to see if anything might peak my interest. Well the first thing to peak my interest was this cute green eyed lady that asked if she could help me. I said yes, there is a half mounted black bear with no teeth and not much hair, is he for sale. I wanted the claws to add to my buckskinner necklace as I was participating in a lot of colonial and mountain man re-enactments. She said “no” and I said “ are you a trader”. She said “yes”. What will you trade for I asked and she said “a wooden leg”. I said next time I come in here I will have the leg. She also told me that her husband had passed a couple of years ago so a widow meets a traveling salesman who is looking for a wooden leg. I had customers in several states and had a few that were good at locating things for me. I pulled into one of those in Alabama a week or so later. He of course asked me what I was looking for this time. I said “a wooden leg”. He doesn’t even look up and makes a call. Get in the truck he said and we were off to visit a former sawmill worker who was 18 50 years ago. It’s one of those memories that is burned in and you never forget it. We pull up and a 78 year old fella with his wife are walking down from the barn. He has two legs in his arm and walking on another one. He said “I’m getting a new one in a couple of weeks “. I thought for a minute and decided 2 was enough. He was going to give them to me but I had to trade something, so I gave he and his wife some wooden spoons. They seemed happy, I was happy and off to get my claws. She really needs to put her 2 cents in here but my side goes like this. I thought maybe with 2 legs I could get a dinner too. Well she only gave me a couple of the claws, got the dinner and eventually all the claws. I got the claws, she got me and I got her.
Sis had a magnetic personality, a smile big as Dallas, and left you with a smile in your heart. She was one of the best cooks, except for my mom, I ever knew. Much like me she was a perfectionist and it showed in our spoons, cooking, travel, relationships, and just life.
Brought her back home in hospice at the end. I had stepped out for a minute and when I stepped back in her pretty green eyes were open and telling me to get her boys. Ronald Reagan’s famous lines were burned in mind “she slipped the surly bonds of this life “ and “ touched the face of God”.
In the end life is a collection of memories and I got so many great ones of our lives that I will never run short. Included a few photos of a few of those “great memories “.