04/11/2026
What I’ve learned about grief is that it looks different for every person and every loss. It’s something you can try to explain, but no one will ever fully understand exactly what you’re feeling—and that’s okay.
Some people will show up for you in ways you never expected, offering patience, kindness, and space to heal. Others may continue on with their lives, not realizing how deeply grief can affect your mental health, expecting you to just keep going without pause or grace.
What has stood out to me most is that often, it’s the people you least expect who reach out with genuine support, compassion, and comfort.
As a small business owner, I can truly say I have some of the most amazing customers. Many of you have shown incredible patience and understanding during one of the hardest times in my life, allowing me the time and space to begin healing and slowly return to fulfilling orders. For that, I am endlessly grateful.
There have also been challenges—moments where understanding was lacking. But that’s part of why I started Swank Candles in the first place. I’ve always believed in being open about mental health, advocating for it, and creating a space where others feel safe to do the same.
To those who have supported me through this—thank you. You’ve given me the gift of time to grieve without added pressure, stress, or guilt. I am making progress, and I’m finding my way back, one step at a time.
As always,
Peace. Love. Sunshine & Candles.
