10/10/2025
To all my former friends and customers,
I feel that you deserve to know the truth about why I had to close my business.
It pains me deeply to share this, but after everything that’s happened, I owe you honesty. You supported me, believed in me, and stood by what I built and you deserve to understand what really happened.
One of the hardest lessons I’ve learned this past year is that I’ve spent most of my life giving everything I had to people who never deserved it.
Another lesson: never lower your morals, your values, or your self-worth to fit into someone else’s twisted sense of reality.
When a relationship that’s lasted nearly two decades ends, and you realize you were replaced by someone half your age who wanted everything you built your home, your husband, your business, even your identity it cuts deep.
But here’s what I’ve learned: you can copy my life, but you’ll never be me.
Every detail in that house the paint, the cabinets, the backsplash, the pool was chosen, paid for, and built by me. My hard work. My sacrifices. My money. I worked two jobs and seven days a week to build something I believed in, while being lied to, gaslighted, and betrayed behind my back.
When I finally found out the truth, I walked away because I finally got smart.
After years of lies, cheating, and manipulation, I left the chaos behind.
Now, someone else can deal with the hangovers, the denial, and the broken promises.
People say, “Don’t be angry, just move on.” But anger is part of healing.
I’ve grieved not just the end of a relationship I’ve grieved the death of a friendship, a partner, and the future I once believed in.
For months, I’ve sat in silence, trying to find any piece of light to hold onto. And while everyone tells me to “just get over it,” I’ll say this: healing takes time.
Every day that passes, you tell yourself, “Today’s a little better.”
And then something else hits another lie uncovered, another reminder that what you thought was over actually started long before you ever knew.
The vehicle that now sits in my driveway where mine once was is just another symbol of what was stolen. My home, my peace, my trust… all slowly chipped away since 2022.
Looking back, my intuition was screaming. I knew something wasn’t right the moment he brought her into my business the one I built with my own hands. But when I asked questions, I got gaslighted.
“Oh, I can’t stand her,” he said.
“She’s a bad employee. She’s a problem.”
And like a fool in love, I believed it.
That’s what narcissists do they’re masters of deception, projection, and manipulation. They redirect your questions, make you doubt your instincts, and paint themselves as victims while destroying your reality piece by piece.
They’ll swear they hate the very person they’re cheating with and all the while, that’s the one who’s been helping them dismantle your life.
So when I say the anger never fully goes away, it’s because every truth that comes out is another cut. Healing isn’t linear when you keep uncovering new betrayals.
But one thing I’ve learned:
Your intuition is never wrong.
And the moment you start trusting it again that’s when you start taking your power back.
I’m no longer drowning in their lies.
I’m done being gaslighted, blamed, and broken.
I’ve faced the truth and now, I’m standing back up.
To anyone reading this: don’t lose yourself for people who would gladly watch you fall just to feel taller.
Be careful who you let into your life.
Some people don’t want to share your light they just want to steal it.
I’m done wasting my tears.
I’m done explaining.
Libby is getting the F*CK back up stronger, wiser, and finally free.
