Ms Elles Art

10/19/2026

SUNDAY REFLECTION 🌿
The Gentle Bullies

Let’s talk about the gentle bullies in our lives.

They don’t yell at you.
They don’t threaten you.
And sometimes, they genuinely love you.

But they don’t support you.

They make decisions for you and call it “helping.”
They get upset when you don’t agree with them.
They can find ten things wrong with your dream but somehow overlook everything that’s going right.

They bring you into their drama, hand you the weight of it, and then walk away feeling better—while you’re still carrying something that never belonged to you.

They make their responsibilities feel like your obligations.

And because you love them, you keep showing up.

You fix it.
You handle it.
You explain yourself.
You change your plans.
You carry their emotions.
You feel guilty for saying no.

Before long, they begin to feel entitled to your time, your energy, your resources, your decisions, and even your peace.

But here’s the part we have to own:

Sometimes people become entitled to our lives because we have given them unlimited access.

Boundaries are not disrespectful.
Saying “no” is not rejection.
Choosing yourself is not selfish.
And loving someone does not require giving them control over your life.

Even Jesus loved people deeply, but He did not allow everyone to dictate His assignment. He knew when to serve, when to speak, when to say no, and when to withdraw.

“Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” — Proverbs 4:23

This Sunday, ask yourself:

Am I helping because God called me to help—or because someone has made me feel guilty if I don’t?

There is a difference.

You can love people unconditionally and still give them conditions for accessing your peace.

Sometimes the most loving word you can say is:

“No.”

And you don’t owe a paragraph after it.

🌿 Sunday Reflection
— Leah R. Le’Gette

08/26/2026

Tuesday Reflection: Change Can Be Good 🌱

Hey everybody, it’s your girl Elle, coming to you with a little Tuesday reflection.

Sometimes we fight change because we’re comfortable with what we know. We get used to certain people, certain places, certain routines—even certain versions of ourselves.

But I’m learning that change can be good.

Change can push you into places you never would’ve gone on your own. It can introduce you to new opportunities, new people, and even a new version of you. And yes, sometimes change hurts. Sometimes it’s uncomfortable. Sometimes you find yourself asking God, “Why does it have to happen this way?”

But maybe God isn’t taking something away from you. Maybe He’s making room.

So today, I’m reminding myself not to be afraid when things start looking different. Different doesn’t always mean bad.

Sometimes different means growth.
Sometimes different means healing.
Sometimes different means God is doing something new. 🙏🏽

So embrace the change. You just might love what’s waiting for you on the other side.

Tuesday Reflection: Change can be good… if you give yourself permission to grow with it. 💚🌱

08/19/2026

Tuesday Reflection: Family ❤️

Family isn’t always perfect. We disagree, get frustrated, misunderstand each other, and sometimes even need a little space. But at the end of the day, family is one of God’s greatest gifts.

As I get older, I realize that it’s not the big things I treasure most—it’s the little moments. The laughter around the table, the phone calls, the inside jokes, the celebrations, and even those crazy moments that only your family could understand. 😂

Life has taught me that tomorrow isn’t promised. So while we have one another, love a little harder, forgive a little quicker, check on each other, and make the memories. Take the picture. Make the call. Say “I love you.” Show up when you can.

Because when everything else changes, the memories we create with the people we love become priceless.

Tuesday Reflection: Don’t wait until someone is gone to realize how important their presence was. Give your family their flowers while they can still smell them. 🌸❤️

08/10/2026

Sunday Reflection: Sunday Dinner 🍽️❤️

Sunday dinner is more than food on the table. It is laughter, storytelling, togetherness, and memories being made. Life gets busy, and families may not gather as often as they once did—but there is something special about slowing down, sharing a meal, and reconnecting with the people we love.

Today, be thankful for every seat filled, every conversation shared, and even the beautiful chaos around the table. One day, these will be the moments we miss most.

Gather your family. Say the prayer. Pass the plate. Share the love. Sunday dinner still matters. ❤️

08/01/2026

07/29/2026

With Following – I just got recognized as one of their top fans! 🎉

07/29/2026

🌿 Tuesday Reflection 🌿

Some of the greatest transformations don’t happen overnight—they happen one faithful step at a time.

Today, don’t measure your progress by how far you still have to go. Measure it by the fact that you didn’t quit.

Every prayer you’ve prayed, every tear you’ve cried, every sacrifice you’ve made… God sees it all. Even when nothing seems to be changing, He is working behind the scenes.

Keep planting.
Keep believing.
Keep showing up.

Your breakthrough isn’t always loud. Sometimes it looks like strength you didn’t know you had, peace in the middle of chaos, and hope that refuses to die.

Today’s reminder: Trust God’s timing. What He has for you is worth the wait.

“Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.” — Galatians 6:9

07/29/2026

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07/28/2026

Welcome to That Grandmom Life. ❤️ This is more than a page—it’s my real life. I’m raising four grandchildren, rebuilding my life, growing a nonprofit, and trusting God every step of the way. If you’ve ever had to start over or step up for your family, you’re in the right place. This is just the beginning. 💜

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