07/09/2026
Iâve worked on a lot of menâs spaces in the last year, and I assure you, men can shop. They put womenâs craft supplies to shame when it comes to bulky hobbies, and they love an accessory.
Maybe they donât call them accessories, but when you own 27 guns and have a specific holster (often a functional option and a leather option) and belt for each one? Or a Foot Locker-sized collection of the same sneakers in every color? You are accessorizing, my man.
They also love a gadget that does ONE THING. âI saw this on TikTok! Itâs just in case I am using my VR headset somewhere that isnât my home and I need to set up a perimeter, and then this case carries everything I need!â
âDo you travel with your VR?â
âNah.â
âDo you use it at home?â
âI donât really have the space since I put in that giant display case of collectible action figures.â
We love a hobby thatâs brings us joy! But before we point the finger at your wifeâŚhow many cars fit in your garage right now?
A home is a team effort. The âwomen shopâ trope is misleading when she is the primary purchaser of everything in the home *except* your hobby. Sheâs âshoppingâ for groceries, furniture, cleaning supplies, small appliances, holiday magic, kidsâ clothing, school lunch snacks, school theme days, PTO donations, linens, and yes, decor. Nobody wants to live in an empty box.
Now, sheâs shopping for me. The kids are wailing when the car seat buckles are too hot in summer because she canât park her car in the garage.
If weâve got a whole-house decluttering challenge, be ready to share the spotlight đ
decluttering