10/09/2026
Today Jaimie called me unkind and rude and uppity, lacking humility and a bad person and business owner because I said it was uncouth to offer a small business 20% of their asking price. If you actually know me, you know I am none of those adjectives (yes I have moments Iām not super proud of, as we all do, but generally speaking). I could have argued with her and been nasty, but her opinion doesnāt define my worth! Life is tough enough without knocking each other down š©·
One thing Iāve learned in life is that what other people say and do is often a reflection of them, not me. ā¤ļø
When someone criticizes my work or tells me they can do it better, I donāt take it personally.
Why? Because Iām confident in who I am, what I do, and what Iām capable of. I know my worth, and I donāt need everyone else to recognize it.
And when someone shows me their work and it really is better than mine? Iāll be the first person to compliment them! Iāll tell them how talented they are, how beautiful their work is, and encourage them to keep going.
Because someone else being good at something doesnāt take anything away from me.
I donāt need to tear someone else down to feel good about myself. I donāt need to prove Iām better. And I donāt need to defend myself every time someone has a negative opinion.
I can admire someone elseās talent without questioning my own.
I genuinely believe in building people up, even when they arenāt doing the same for me.
Not everything deserves a reaction. Not every opinion deserves my energy.
Confidence isnāt believing youāre better than everyone else. Itās knowing you donāt have to be. ā¤ļø