Everyday Così

12/05/2025

I packaged up our system, we call it The Reset, so that more families could have this at their houses.

You can get your copy now — it’s a digital download. It’s still half off and $8.50 today (will “reset” 😉 to $17 tomorrow).

Grab it (link in bio and all that jazz) get started, and let me know how it goes!

12/04/2025

Every time I share homemakery stuff I feel like in need to caveat with my voting record. 🤣

Not a tradwife! Just a very liberal lady who is also a wife and also a May Ta**us so I love all things domestic and pretty/florals and I’ve never voted Republican in 24 years of voting okay?

12/03/2025

You can have our system, too! Look for “The Reset” at the link in my bio, it’s 50% off through Friday. 🥰

Here’s what we do:

First: we’re going to take 30 minutes to tackle our personal spaces - bedrooms bathrooms.
> Each space has a super specific cleaning list that breaks down every task in the order it needs doing so we can start cleaning without getting stuck wondering *how* to start

Second: we’ll take about 30 minutes to work on shared spaces: family room, living room, dining room, kitchen, hallways, etc.
> we won’t do these room-by-room but task-by-task. The four of us each get assigned a job quarterly:

• Dusting
• Vacuuming
• Mopping
• And a random bucket we call “The Other” in which the person does a handful of hodgepodge tasks that take about 20-30 minutes.

The duster (currently my task and the very worst one 😒) starts first and works along a route built for efficiency. The vacuum and mop people follow behind so so one is thwarting someone’s efforts.

“The Other” happens simultaneously.

This works for our ADHD family because

>> body doubling! No fomo here, we are all cleaning and all working

>> super specific cleaning lists keep us focused, our brains don’t have to THINK, our bodies just DO

>> we use “dopamine bridges” to help motivate. Hot cocoa first, then The Reset (what we call this home care system), then everyone will have free time until dinner.

>> everyone knows how they work best so we’ve provided the necessary tools — wireless headphones, Spotify playlists, a basket of cleaning tools for the task

12/02/2025

So! A bunch of you loved hearing how my husband, our sons (13 + 11), and I clean our 2,700sqft house in about an hour each week, with our squirrelly ADHD brains/penchants for collections.

Well?! I packaged up our whole system into this thing we call The Reset so you can have it at your house (the link is in my bio and use code DUSTINGSUCKS for 50% off!).

Lemme walk you through The Reset I made. When you get it, it’s a PDF/digital download, but I printed one to show you what’s in here 👀

12/01/2025

Let me know if you want to see how we do it or if you want to try building one of your own!

I’m rooting for you and am always happy to share what’s working for us. 💕

11/29/2025

We hosted Thanksgiving for the first time and while it was a big undertaking, I was surprised by what I noticed about cleaning our house!

Swipe for the 6 things I learned this week.

My family’s cleaning lists are in my bio (they’re free, you can have ‘em!) and if you want the system we use, I’ve packaged that up for you, too. Look for The Reset at the link in my bio and use code DUSTINGSUCKS for 50% off!

11/25/2025

I was such a martyr! Now my ADHD family of four (me, husband, 13yo/11yo sons) clean the whole house in about an hour. I’m so glad we have a system that works for our brains and our family.

Life changing.

Want to learn all about it? Look for The Reset in my bio. 🩷

11/23/2025

Do you use “opening duties” (and closing duties) in your house? What’s on yours?

11/22/2025

We use the same cleaning lists every Saturday — the exact ones I give away for free in my bio.

If you want the full system that changed our weekends forever, The Reset is right there too.

11/21/2025