09/02/2026
HOME SHOULD BE THE PLACE WHERE YOU DON’T HAVE TO EDIT YOURSELF TO BELONG
(Sorry for yelling, but it kinda needs to be shouted from the rooftops.)
Hi, I’m Jess, the interior designer behind The Styled Domicile, and that’s really what my approach to design comes down to.
We aren’t born with a natural inclination to edit what we like; we learn it. When we’re kids, we just like what we like. Then one day someone tells you your purple-and-green winter coat is ugly (rude!), and suddenly you realize there are rules you didn’t know existed.
So you start learning them. What’s cool, what’s weird, what’s tasteful, what’s too much. And little by little, you learn to second-guess what you like before anyone else even gets the chance.
And that way of making decisions becomes so ingrained, we bring it into our homes too. We see something and immediately think, OMG I LOVE THAT... followed closely by, But is it too weird? Will I get sick of it? What will people think?
We’ve learned to edit ourselves for other people, even in the one place that’s supposed to be ours.
I see interior design as a way to find your way back to yourself. To trust what you love. To make decisions rooted in meaning instead of outside approval. To create a home that supports the way you actually live and surrounds you with your stories, your quirks, and things that bring you joy.
Because if you can’t be your biggest, weirdest self at home, where the hell can you be?
And when a home is built from all of that, the personality comes naturally. It becomes layered and collected, colorful and meaningful, playful and a little weird, because that’s what happens when you design for a real human being instead of some imaginary idea of what a home is supposed to look like.
The goal isn’t a home that everyone will like.
It’s a home where you feel like you belong.
📸 Architectural and Interiors Photographer