10/28/2026
Things I don’t do anymore as an interior designer raising six kids:
1. I don’t worry about small messes made from my kids playing. We can handle messes that can be cleaned up within 15 minutes of focussed tidying.
2. I don’t see someone else’s space and wish mine looked like theirs, our homes are stories curated over many years. I’m proud of what I have created and happy to see others telling their stories.
3. I don’t put out throw pillows on every sofa and bed. This one might bother some people, but when you have six kids, practicality wins. Many throw pillows get crushed and stained when they are left out and they take up precious space. When I need to make a point that I know how to style a space, I pull them out.
3. I don’t start projects I cannot finish in a weekend. I love watching women tackle big DIY projects, but that is not my goal nor season. If I can’t hire it out or do it in a timely manner, I can create beauty in other ways.
By the way, I’m Lucy, an interior designer who styles without losing my soul. If this resonates with you and you are ready to learn practical ways to improve your home without feeling like you are protecting a museum, comment READY and I send you a quick guide to accessing a room in your home. P.S. I normally have my kids clean up our playroom, but I had the time and enjoyed doing it while they were away. I do the major resets of rooms anyway.